"filal piety is important, but do you realise that you'll live 20 or 30 years with your parents, but let's say you live to 80, you'll spend the next 50 years with someone else.. so when you take the hand of someone now, don't think of holding it just for the sake of having a companion.. but think whether it's the hand you wanna hold on to for the next 50yrs."...

me: "mummy. what made you chose daddy for the rest of ur life?"
mummy: "he had a nice car."

me: "daddy. why did u choose mummy to be with for the rest of ur life?"
daddy: "i don't know what i was thinking. but i guess she had nice hair."

hmm. so my parent's 25 yrs of happy relationship, 20 yrs of blissful marriage, is actually started due to nice cars n hairs.... *stuns*

forget it.

slick explanations cant deny the fact that someone let you down. consider the circumstances, and decide if dat person is worth your feelings. maybe it's time to let go.